Life doesn’t go the way we want it to, and people don’t go as we expect them to. The people you wish to stand beside you in times of trouble are often silent, but some just watch from a distance. It’s natural to upset you, but it’s not meant to break you.
Not all people can handle your stress. Some are stressed themselves, others don’t know what it takes to help. It’s easy to blame them, but it won’t move your life forward. What moves you is greater than yourself.
When they say it’s okay if they don’t understand you, it doesn’t mean you don’t need people. But it means don’t put your luck in their hands. Your life will change by your decisions, your energy and your persistence. People’s support is extra, but the foundation is you.
Most of the time the people who don’t understand you will be the ones who celebrate you tomorrow. The people who are hiding when you are facing problems today, will come before you tomorrow when you stand on your own and succeed. It’s the way of life, don’t be impressed, don’t lose.
All you need on this road is patience, persistence and faith. Push yourself at least one step forward every day. Even a little progress is better than stagnation.
So it’s okay if they don’t understand you.
If you don’t stop yourself, no one can stop you. Lean on with your time, energy and dedication, the end will be yours.
