what other people thought of you ?

Do you remember a time when you were worried about what other people thought of you ?

Do you remember the time when you were filled with fear, thinking that everyone was watching you? Do you remember the time when you neglected your own affairs and suffered greatly because of others? How many rare life opportunities did you waste in vain, and how many times did you let people pressure you? Do you remember the life-changing task that you were anxious to do, whether you saw me or not? Do you remember the desire of your heart that you put aside, saying, “I will leave you for Christmas, I will be given a gift, my name will be lost”?

Unfortunately, most of our lives are spent worrying about what people think of us and worrying about what they think of us. We are very concerned about the place that people give us. We are especially eager to know what someone special and dear to us thinks of us. All our time is wasted worrying about what people think of us; the less time we have for ourselves, the more time we spend with others.

We don’t have time to do what is useful to us, but when other people call us, we have time. No matter how much you think, how much you think, how much you think, how much you think, you can’t know what people think about you. Wasting time and emotions on something you can’t know is the greatest waste of effort. Human effort is limited. Remembering the past is not to change what is irreversible and has already happened, but to avoid repeating that mistake again.

Yes! Be careful not to let the time you wasted today, the opportunity you didn’t use, or the people you were worried about cause you regret and sorrow tomorrow. Respect the culture and beliefs of your community; but if it affects your dignity and interests, you will take correction in your own way, and not live in the opinion of others and hurt yourself. Distinguish between two extremes: one that you can change, and the other that you cannot change.

There is no middle ground that will put you in a dilemma outside of the two, so don’t worry about what you can change, because you can change, adjust, correct, and improve; and don’t worry about what you can’t change, because you already know that if you worry, if you get stuck, you won’t be able to change it.

Have a beautiful evening !

Thank God for everything, yes, thank God; ❤️