By Danel 
Our inner feelings speak to us constantly; but it is our responsibility to listen to these feelings
Just as your conscience tells you when you make a mistake, and your body tells you when you are sick, tired, or thirsty, one of the many important things your inner self tells you is your sense of being pressured by people.
Listening to the feeling of being pressured by people means recognizing the pressure that takes us away from who we are.
People around us constantly pressure us to do things we don’t believe in, to make decisions we don’t want to make, and to enter areas of life we are not comfortable with.
Some people think they are doing us a favor by pressuring and coercing us, while others do it because they have a tendency to control us.
If you can free yourself from coercive and controlling people while living in this world, you are endowed with all the victories of victory.
If you look back at the situations in which you have wasted a lot of time in the past, you will find that they are related to the situations you did or avoided due to pressure from others.
If you want to escape this situation, whatever you think, whatever idea you have, it must come from within you or be believed in. Therefore, there are steps you can take to break free from the cycle of being forced by people.
- Have a life plan.
It is important to identify and develop your life’s direction and to act on that knowledge. If you don’t guide yourself, people and experiences will guide you. But when you guide yourself, you will be able to weigh everything. - Know your limits.
Know how far you have to go for people.
While it is true that it is a great act of kindness and generosity to compromise people’s opinions or to pay a price for their sake, you should do it not out of a sense of obligation, but because you believe in it and have decided to do it.
- Set limits for people.
It’s a good habit to get into the habit of saying no to something you don’t believe in without any guilt.
Remember that saying yes to everything just to avoid hurting people’s feelings and appearing mean will erode your identity and waste your time.
Do your best to wake up from the state of being in a state of being numb and numb! ; It is good if you know who you are saying yes to and what kind of situation! ; It is good if you take your own journey out of the hands of people and put it into your own hands and make it your choice without any alternative.