By Danel 
People’s ‘selfishness’ doesn’t always come from a bad personality; it’s usually a defense mechanism born from broken kindness! 🙌
Don’t try to be a bridge for everyone in your life. People who take advantage of your kindness and sincerity will eventually break you and kill the goodness in you.
Sacrificing oneself for the sake of everyone… is not kindness, but losing one’s own identity.
To all the people you have helped… Don’t expect them to stand by you in your time of need; most people only realize your worth when you lose them. 🙌
Don’t sacrifice your own mental health and peace of mind to help others. Setting boundaries and saying NO is not selfish, it’s smart to protect yourself. 🤌
Often, the individuals people call ‘selfish’ are the ones who gave of themselves for the sake of everyone else yesterday, and their kindness was returned in kind. 💔
Being kind is a beautiful trait; but if your kindness has no boundaries, it will destroy you, not others. Prioritizing your own peace and sanity is not being ‘selfish’.
Let us learn to give only to those who deserve it and to say ‘no’ for the sake of your peace. 🤍✨
Thank you !
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